Sunday, August 26, 2012

What Do you Do and Why - Dan

What do you do and why?

Dan



Dan and I met in math class freshman year of high school and have been friends ever since. Like Joanna (who also knows Dan and was featured a few weeks back), Dan and I have come and gone from each other's lives, but I've always considered him a dear friend. He always seemed to have a lot of sensibility about him and a care free, exploratory attitude that I hoped to attain... even now. He and his wife, Luann, even up and moved to another county for a year - something that I wouldn't have the guts to do, but love that they were brave enough to jump into the unknown. Keep reading to learn more about Dan's journey.


1. What do you do?

I teach English as a Second Language to adult immigrants and refugees. In the past few years my students have been mostly low-literate and pre-literate learners. Classes are free to participants.


2. Why did you choose to do this? Have you always wanted to do this? Did you fall into this career or actively take steps to get here? Did you choose it or did it choose you?

I think my interest in learning about worlds other than the one in which I grew up may have pushed me to this career path,  but I came into this career through trial-and-error. Once I got a taste and realized that I did have talents and interest in the area of Adult Basic Education (ABE), only then did I go out and pursue further education in the field.


3. What did you need to do to get here? Did you go to school? If so, was your degree related to what you are doing? Did you do something like an internship or work your way up for years? Did you take advantage of things like Informational Interviewing with those in the field?

I studied International Relations and Spanish with a major in Latin American Studies, not knowing what I would do from there. I think I imagined myself working abroad in the US foreign service. At the time, Minnesota was not as much a part of Latin America as it is today so I didn't have much idea of what do to locally but I hoped to make a positive change for society.  I ended up trying a few things as a volunteer in areas that provided help for homeless and  low-income clients.  I did a seasonal job working with migrant farmworkers. I registered latino voters.  I interviewed welfare recipients for a statewide study. All random social service-type jobs that might have had some tangential connection to Spanish-speakers, Spanish being (as least I thought so) my only marketable skill. Meanwhile I also did fairly unsatisfying blue-collar work to pay the bills. In this vein of experimenting with different fields, I got a position with Minneapolis Schools. I was hoping to be a bilingual aide of some sort, but I was naive about how good my Spanish actually was. I didn't have the skills for that kind of job, but the district did find a job for me working in a computer lab at an alternative school. The job itself was a little bit undefined but I did my best. I could see that perhaps education was for me, but maybe not with high-schoolers, as I felt barely out of school myself. I was not a good authority figure. So I kept interviewing for other random jobs, some in education. Back in 1997 I was offered a position as an ABE paraprofessional at the place I work now.

In that paraprofessional job I saw a kind of job I hadn't previously imagined. I was able to work with 5 -6 different teachers in as many classrooms with adult students of all levels, from recent immigrants to native Minnesotans working on GEDs to stroke victims re-learning how to read. I think encouragement by some of those teachers, those who told me I was a natural at it, made a big difference in my sticking with it. As I was given more responsibilities in that first year, I gained enough confidence that I determined I would go back to school for my license, so I could teach my own classes. So for the next two years or so I worked there and studied at night. The combination of classroom theory and classroom practice was good training for me. Being in those other classrooms not only gave me ideas of how to teach, they sometimes gave me ideas of how not to teach, which formed my classroom practices.

I quit that paraprofessional job so I could do my student teaching, two months in elementary, two months in a high school. After those experiences, I was reminded that I wasn't interested in teaching secondary, but surprisingly I was beginning to imagine myself as an elementary teacher. As the practicum was ending, I interviewed with some elementary schools, and was about to accept a position when my former ABE manager called and asked if I was interested in taking the place of a teacher who suddenly had to leave. It was a decision that would affect the course of things to come, professionally and financially. I took the ABE position and have rarely looked back.



If I had become a K-12 teacher, I think I would have made much more money by now. I would've been able to do more typical middle class things like buy a house, drive a newer car, take annual vacations with summers free. On the other hand, the stresses of K-12 teaching in the areas of classroom management, long hours, government mandates and job insecurity probably would have led to some serious burnout by now and I might have already changed careers.

I enjoy the work I do now. On a day-to-day basis I don't feel like I'm doing it for a paycheck. It has become more of a part of who I am as a person to try to do the best I can for the people who've entrusted me to teach them. Of course every job has its issues. In this job, for me, the problems mostly stem from actions and different ideas of coworkers, as well as government mandated stuff that is unavoidable in any public institution. I have lots of room to be creative or not be creative in my own instruction as long as some benchmarks are met. The students in my classes fulfill some of that desire I had to travel to foreign places and learn more about the world. And of course it's very rewarding to know that I am helping people meet their goals.

(part b - As a student, I had many opportunities to visit other ESL classes, but not with the same eye a jobhunter might have. A few years ago, when Louann was looking for a new career she volunteered, did quite a few informational interviews and site visits. From medical librarian to dental hygienist. I think they helped her figure out what she wanted to be when she grows up, and that she didn't really want to look in people's mouths, after all.)


4. What would you do if you weren't doing what you are? Would you do this out of necessity, because you happen to have the skill sets, or because it is your dream job?

Right now I'm afraid I don't have the imagination to think about other careers. I have a pretty focused skill set. The only chance I have for advancement within would be to take on more bureaucratic work and do less (or no) teaching as a supervisor or manager; essentially taking away all the good parts and replacing them with the parts I don't enjoy. The only changes I can see, other than teaching other types of classes, would be movement to another program or a leave of absence to teach abroad for a year or two.


5. If you could create a job description of what you are doing what would it be?

Aside from the actual work, there are some very important factors in my current position that are good for my quality of life:


  • I don't work every day, and for the most part I leave my work at the office. I dedicate 4-5 days per week to this job, no more. I have about 6 weeks off in the summer to recharge.
  •  I have almost no commute to work. We moved closer to the job for this purpose.
  • I appreciate the professionalism of my colleagues, but can also be frustrated by the lack thereof.
  • Split shifts means exercise time or nap-time built-in.
  •  My hours and my wife's hours are such so that we do get to see each other regularly, but we also have solo-time alone at home. Both are necessary for us to be happy.
  • Taking advantage of some opportunities to be part of the profession on a statewide and national level provides stimulation and perspective on the world outside of my little classroom.


I appreciate how Dan calls out that he chose a path that leaves a positive impact on his quality of life. Far too often I think we take positions because they will bring us more money or because it will give us a loftier title, but those things don't always equate to job and life satisfaction. I (like many others) am trying to find that work/life balance myself.

Thank you Dan for sharing your journey!

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Wednesday, August 22, 2012

August Photo a Day Week 3

August Photo a Day inspired by Fat Mum Slim


8/15
Ready

Ready for a bath, that is. What a hot mess. She even got food on her brow creating a subtle uni-brow.



8/16
Food

Sushi at Crave where I celebrated another happy hour for a co-worker who has departed. I know I have mentioned it before, but we've lost a lot of people on our team recently for a variety of reasons (grad school, moving out of state, staying home with kids, new job opportunities...). We are hopeful that we will be getting some support soon.



8/17
Faces

This is my work team. Mike, Maggie, Delena, Lisa, Josh, Moi, Marne, Ashley (whose last day was Friday), and Ben (Parra couldn't make our work boating event - and her last day is next week). I work on a pretty awesome team and I love all our different personalities.



8/18
Inside

We are planning for a camping trip this upcoming weekend so I pulled out the old camping supply tub to prepare. It's been a really long time since we went camping so I am pretty sure eating that Chili Mac with Beef will be a bad idea. But who knows, I might be feeling risky...



8/19
Hole

It doesn't look like much, but I occasionally find these holes in the yard. I'm guessing they are from moles or something small and harmless, but I let my mind run wild envisioning wild snakes slithering out of these and chasing me down. I'm sure it's possible.



8/20
Today

Riley, my dad, and I headed out to my dad's farm in Wisconsin as Riley didn't have daycare so I had to take the day off. My dad had a new septic tank put in recently and they added this huge mound in the yard totally changing the landscape I've always known the farm to be. We planted some trees along the mound, traveled around Wisconsin unsuccessfully trying to find a couple wheel barrels of driveway gravel, and hauled dirt from one side of the yard to the other before heading home.



8/21
Cool

My friend, Josie, loved the Chicken Spaghetti I made for her when she was pregnant and asked for more. I made it, but she works 7 days a week so I haven't been able to connect with her. It's been sitting in my freezer for weeks and needs to get to Josie's house soon as I fear we'll decide to go ahead and eat it. Whoa, when did we pick up brussels sprouts?

See August Photo a Day week 1 and 2.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Going on a Boat Ride

My company just went through some system upgrades and since it impacted the work we could do they decided to take us out on a boat for the afternoon. We usually get some sort of quarterly incentive such as a free lunch, but usually don't get much time associated with it. This time we got to log out at noon, eat our free pizza, drive out to St Paul, and hop on a boat for a little over an hour before heading home for the day.













It turned out to be a beautiful day weather wise and was fun to hang out with my co-workers in a laid back and social activity.

Sunday, August 19, 2012

What Do You Do And Why? - Angela


What do you do and why?

Angela 


I met Angela during graduate school (MA in Professional Counseling and Marriage and Family Therapy) over 10 years ago.  I think we both knew that we wanted to be in a helping field, but walked away from the program still not sure if that was exactly what we wanted to do.  We both attempted to work in the field, but dipped our toes in other areas as well (Angela is also an amazing artist). When I was looking to make a change from working at an Adoption Agency she suggested I come work at her company (where I still work). We both worked as Academic Advisors for some time, but life in a cubicle was not the place for Angela as she had a bigger calling… and was lucky enough to find it. Read on to discover more about her current journey.


1. What do you do?

I am living my dream life J  It took me a long time to get here.  Now that I am here, I can’t imagine being anywhere else.  I am my own boss.  I plan my week, whether or not, I generate and actualize income, lays on the responsibility of me.  I enjoy that though.  I provide coaching, and Access Bars sessions to clients both via phone and in person.  I also facilitate classes, which I love.  I am building a business that works for me, including having the ability to travel around the world.  Is it always easy?  No...however, it is a lot easier for me, than being stuck in a place, that didn’t work for me.  Nurturing my soul with a work setting, has been an amazing gift of freedom for me.  I am so grateful!



2. Why did you choose to do this? Have you always wanted to do this? Did you fall into this career or actively take steps to get here? Did you choose it or did it choose you? 

I have always been on a journey in the empowering and inspiring others field.  I have also always known that this would best suite me, if I was self employed.  All my background supports what I am creating and generating in my business.  During those steps, I had no idea what I was going to do with it all though.  It was like putting each piece of the puzzle together, and with each piece, the picture started to develop and have clarity.  I would say that I chose it.  It took making myself really sick, and trying to shove myself into a life that didn’t work for me to have the courage to choose something different.  I do believe there is an easier way J


3. What did you need to do to get here? Did you go to school? If so, was your degree related to what you are doing? Did you do something like an internship or work your way up for years? Did you take advantage of things like Informational Interviewing with those in the field? 

Ah..yes the school.  Yes, my educational background does relate to what I am doing and has laid a good foundation for me.  Also to mention that I met a lot of really amazing people along the way that have guided me through this journey. (Angela is also a Certified Therapeutic Coach.)


4. What would you do if you weren't doing what you are? Would you do this out of necessity, because you happen to have the skill sets, or because it is your dream job? 

I honestly can’t think of anything that I’d rather be doing right now.  Perhaps, be independently wealthy and travel to exotic places!  Ha!


Angela' art "New Beginnings". Check out her card series here

5. If you could create a job description of what you are doing what would it be?

Living Life Being Truly AWAKE.  Being in the moment, and allowing myself to receive the greatness of each moment.  Allowing myself to empower and inspire people in the world, while also receiving payment for the gifts that I have to contribute to the world.  My life is bigger and richer than it ever has been before.  I am stepping into my gifts, standing out, and having so much fun!


Thank you Angela for sharing your story!

Angela alludes to how she became really sick and I want to call this out a little more because I think we often overlook how the choices we make can have a physical impact on us. We dismiss it for a variety of reasons or because we are too scared to make the changes that would bring about the unknown. Angela eventually trusted her gut and took a big leap towards her dreams, her happiness, and her health. You can find out more about Access Bars and how to contact Angela by clicking here or here.

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Saturday, August 18, 2012

A Day in the Life - Summer 2012 Edition

Apparently I was a little out of the loop this time as I intended to link up with Navigating the Mothership as she does a quarterly 'Day in the Life', but I totally missed her blog post about it. Oh well, I decided I'd do it anyway even if it's a little late.

Wednesday 8/15/12

4:16 - I wake up to go to the bathroom. Return to bed and realize I am freezing. Get up to add a layer and get back into bed. Can't sleep. I'm already beat as I couldn't sleep well the night before either. Great. Basically lay in bed at different levels of resting (but not sleep) until alarm goes off.

6:00 - Alarm goes off. Jump out of bed and put on clothes that I laid out the night before. Dress in one minute.


This would say 6:01, but I struggled to figure out the camera in the dark.

I head downstairs and look in the mirror for the first time.


Yikes. Do other getting ready stuff before Riley and husband rise.


Eh. Good enough.

6:15ish - I hear Jesse and Riley upstairs while I am putting on my mascara. I head upstairs and help get Riley dressed. I usually have an outfit set out for her, but neglected to do so. I decide to take over getting her dressed because you never know what Jesse will put on her. Jesse goes downstairs to eat his breakfast.


Riley tries to assist me with taking pictures while I get her ready. This is the only remotely clear one of about 15 pictures.

6:35 - Back downstairs to eat breakfast. Riley decides she wants to go into the basement. Jesse is done with his food so he heads to the basement with her and lets her watch Dora. I eat a piece of the banana nut bread I made this past weekend and some Greek yogurt. As I am on my last bites I remember that my building is having a tenant appreciation breakfast.


I do some last minute getting ready things and go downstairs to get Riley. She, of course, fights being asked to go upstairs as she wants to keep watching TV, but I ask her to push the off button on the remote and she readily agrees. We head upstairs.

6:55 - Head out the door. Jesse drops me off at the bus stop before taking Riley to daycare and then going to work himself.


7:25 - Arrive at work. Get logged in and head right downstairs again with my co-worker, Lisa, to get our tenant appreciation breakfast.


The food is the same as every year - yogurt, fruit, breads, juice, coffee - I grab a bunch of fruit and a couple mini cinnamon buns. Every year I grab one of these cinnamon things and wish I took more as they are little sweet pillows of heaven. This year I take two and they are meh. I still eat them both.


7:45 - Get to work. It's a pretty quiet morning and I am having a hard time focusing. I actually work diligently all morning, but wish I would have pulled out one of my special projects to work on. At any rate I am getting a lot of work done.


My home away from home.

10:30 - I go to a meeting in place of  my supervisor whose last day is Friday. My team is down three advisors and will be losing two more in the next couple weeks... plus our supervisor. And we don't have anyone in place to replace any of them (yet). Yikes! I have a feeling all those projects are going to sit on the sideline for awhile as we just try to stay on top of the most urgent needs.

12:00 - Lunchtime. I neglected to bring my lunch so I head downstairs to wander the skyway for food. I don't have a craving for anything so I am scrambling to decide where to go. I meet another advisor in the same predicament and we debate our options together. As we ride down the elevator, it opens on a floor I can only guess is where the IT folks live (no judgments, but you know the look). About 12 IT people cram into the elevator leaving the other advisor and myself suffocating in the back corners. They talk about how hard it is to find a Delorean car in Minnesota. Once we are freed from the elevator the other advisor and I both end up at Jimmy Johns.


12:15ish - I get back to my desk and eat my food while starting this post, checking Facebook and looking at other blogs.

1:00 - Back to work


This fake cat has been making the rounds at work for years. The last person that was 'caring' for it is leaving the company so I found it at my desk one day. It even purrs when turned on. Like I need something else to make me look like the 'oddball' one at work.

2:00 - Team meeting. My co-worker Lisa is presenting on some updated resources we provide our students and she decides we are going to play a game to make sure we know the wheres and whats of these resources. Lisa hates games with a passion so we are all a little floored. She agrees to pose for a picture commemorating the occasion.


And she's smiling. For a picture. I don't know what to make of this. (Lisa is a wonderfully delightful person who hates games, having her picture taken, and hugs.)

3:06 - Back at my desk taking and making calls.

4:30 - Log out and head over to Rare for a going away happy hour for my boss. Eat some sushi and some of Lisa's edamame. Drink a glass of wine and then high tail it out to the bus.


My boss, Lee, is the one with her hand out. The rest are a bunch of super smart strong women that I get to work with. 

5:47 - Get home about the time all the guys arrive for boys night. Every Wednesday my husband has a few guys over to play board games in the basement.



Riley's already eaten dinner so we head outside and play with the ball, check out the ABC's written in chalk on the sidewalk, play with her new slide, break out the sprinkler, and play with the water table.





We then head inside, put away toys and head downstairs for a moment only to get sidetracked playing with a balloon.


Go back upstairs and take a bath.


7:15ish - Take Riley downstairs to say goodnight to Jesse and the guys.


Riley helps me take a picture of the boys and then we then head upstairs to read books. We are a little behind, but still have time to read a couple books.


7:45 - I try to get Riley down by 7:30 so this is only slightly later than usual. She seems extra whiny, but after making sure she had everything she needed and seemed to want I head downstairs. She cries and cries. I go in and try to console her, but I don't know what the problem is. She usually goes to bed without issue, but the night before she had some problems too. I head back downstairs and she cries and cries some more. Jesse comes up and decides he'll check her out. He comes back down and indicates it's hot in her room and that she is asking for Mommy. She cries some more so I go up again. I try asking what she needs, but all she does is speak jibberish in a whiny voice. I know I am supposed to be patient, but it drives me nuts. Please just clearly tell me what you need so I can give it to you. I leave again and listen to her cry some more. I go up again and like every other time she immediately stops crying once I enter the room. I end up rocking her for at least 5 minutes. It seems to calm her down and I think she's near sleep. I lay her down, hand her sippy cup to her, make sure she has all her stuffed animals and leave again.

8:25 - Silence. She finally goes to sleep. But now it is almost an hour later than I want it to be. I have a ton of things I wanted to get done tonight, but first I need more food. I open the fridge and find that we desperately need to go grocery shopping. I barely have enough to make a grilled cheese. Such a sad empty fridge. Grocery shopping fail.

8:50 - I sit in front of the computer and eat. While eating I load some pictures onto the computer, process a couple of them and then post my August Photo a Day week 2 post. I finish eating and decide I better write some of this post so I don't forget. The lack of sleep this week so far has given me foggy brain. Well, a foggier than usual brain. I don't tackle any of the more pressing projects I wanted to take care of that relate to my rental property. I'll get them done tomorrow. I swear.

9:40 - Yikes. Time to jump in the shower. I'd like to be in bed at this time, but no.

During shower - I hear footsteps fly upstairs and then realize that I might be hearing my child scream bloody murder.

After shower - go upstairs and try to console kid who is still crying even though Jesse is holding her. Not sure what is wrong, but she's in a bad spot. She touches her ear a couple times so we immediately think she must have an ear infection, but then realize that she's never touched her ears when she's had ear infections in the past. Headache? Who knows. She just screams. Move into our bedroom, and turn on Funniest Home Videos and finally get her calmed down, but she's on the very edge. We keep trying to get her to take ibuprofen, but that just gets her to cry again. When she's calmed down I run downstairs to run a brush through my wet, knotted hair and brush my teeth.  I hear her start screaming again. When I go back upstairs I see that Jesse and Riley are back in her room. I think "why did you move her" and then realize he tried to give her the ibuprofen, but it ended up in our bed.

We end up flipping the top sheet over the spill and I lay back down with Riley. Jesse puts some ibuprofen in a syringe hoping she'll take that. He hands it to me and goes downstairs to wrap things up with the guys who have been waiting patiently, wondering what to do. Jesse comes back up while Riley and I lay in bed watching TV. She eventually starts eyeing the syringe in my hand, pulls her nuk out of her mouth and opens wide. Shortly after she takes the ibuprofen she rolls over and goes to sleep. Jesse goes downstairs to sleep and I slowly lower the volume on the TV and eventually turn it off. She turns over and asks to have the TV on, but then falls right back asleep. I don't know the exact time, but I am pretty sure it is close to midnight. I wake up numerous times that night. So much for getting a good night's sleep.

Epilogue: Riley woke up at 6:15 the next morning delightful as can be and has been great ever since. Guess I will never know what really pained her that night. I'm just glad it is over.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

August Photo a Day Week 2

August Photo a Day inspired by Fat Mum Slim


8/8
Glasses

Not much to say about this except that the new glasses are working out fine. I've already had to replace one lens as it mysteriously got scratched. I later noticed they replaced it with a flawed lens, but never found the time to take it back. Bah. It's really slight so I'm not very motivated to deal with it.



8/9
Messy

My intention was to show how messy my desk at home was, but after taking the picture I realized the screen saver picture embraced this photo prompt as well. I'd like to say that my desk is usually nice and neat, but this picture shows it just slightly messier than it has been usually.



8/10
Ring

I was so busy with other things that I pretty much missed the entire first week of the Olympics. I'm not a die hard fan of the Olympics, but it's fun to watch the competitions and to be able to see the athletic talent of so many people.



8/11
Purple

Any parents out there know Miles the Crocodile? The book and CD is part of the Baby Loves Music series. Each book focuses on something different and Miles covers colors. Purple (the song) is a favorite with Riley.



8/12
Spoon

It's a spoon. And slotted at that.



8/13
Simple

I have no idea if this was an intended picture for this prompt, but I only found pictures for this day of her running around with her ball. Simple? Sure, simple fun.



8/14
Arrow

My little human arrow. Tuesday mornings we often go out for a walk and Riley makes sure to point which way she wants to go at each intersection. This morning I was feeling really crabby so I was especially wanting to get outside into the fresh air, but once we got a couple blocks from home Riley completely broke down. I have no idea what happened so I can only imagine that she was feeling my crabbiness even though I was trying my best not to let it out. Here she was probably also whining that she wanted to go home as she was pointing.


See August Photo a Day week 1